How to Reconnect with My Teen During COVID-19

Embracing the new normal of today can be daunting and stressful, especially for teens. So much has changed in their life. Many teens are feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from the world around them. So, how can parents work to re-connect and build-up their relationships with tweens and teens struggling during COVID while promoting positive mental health? 

Deborah Ann Davis, Award-winning Author, Parenting Skills Coach, and former educator of 20 years, emphasizes the importance of fostering and promoting positive relationships with our teenagers, especially during times of intense change and stress. 

Here are Deborah’s top 4 tips on how parents can reconnect with their teen during COVID-19:

Tip #1: Let it go

Address the uncertainty of what this school year holds. Nothing you say or do can change that situation. The best way to handle it is to let go of the things you cannot control. Once you orient yourself to focus on things you can control, talk to your teen about how “our job is to learn to be flexible. We’ll deal with tomorrow together when it comes. Go ahead and make today count.” It’s never too late to hold this conversation, so if the school has already begun for you, have at it!

Tip #2: Conversation is Key

The conversation is key to a good relationship, to understand the world around you and how you fit into it, and to the exploration of new thoughts and ideas. The more you interact in a positive manner with your teen, the more understood they will feel. The more they feel like you get them, the more they will trust you to have his back. The more they trust you, the more they’ll open up to you, even when the conversation is difficult.

Tip #3: Where to Begin

Sometimes the best way to engage your teen in conversation is to use an outside source to generate a topic. Choose an article, a song, or even a comic strip to share with them. After you share your tidbit, engage in a short, five-minute conversation on how they, their best friend, and maybe other friends or family would react to that. Listen without judgment. Their ideas and opinions are theirs, and they entitled to them. The proper response from you is, “That’s interesting!” Lastly, give them a hug, tell them how much you enjoy the person they’re becoming, and sail out of the room, leaving them in the warm, fuzzy wake of a positive interaction.

Tip #4: Position Your Conversation

Set the stage to invite conversation. My favorite way to initiate a tête-à-tête with my daughter is to set up a side-by-side situation. Go for a stroll together and see where the conversation leads you, do a chore together, or even have them pick a recipe for you to experiment on together. When your activity ends, say, “I really enjoyed myself with you. Thank you for spending the time with me, especially when you have so much on your mind.” Give them one last hug, and leave them in their own space, basking in the warmth of your love. 

What are your thoughts?  Please share in the comments below. I really would love to know.

Until next time, shine amongst the stars!

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2 thoughts on “How to Reconnect with My Teen During COVID-19

  1. I’m not a mom yet, but reconnecting with your kids during the pandemic is quite an important thing. I bet you are doing great! 🙂

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