Rekindle Your Love
December has a way of slowing us down. The cooler nights, the warm lights, the holiday music floating in the background… everything feels softer, a little more sentimental. And honestly, it’s one of the best months to get intentional about love.
Between holiday gatherings, family traditions, and squeezing in last-minute errands, it’s easy for couples to move on autopilot. I’ve been there too. You’re doing things together, but not always connecting. That’s why this month felt like the perfect time for a special December Marriage Challenge. Gentle moments. Cozy connection. Heartfelt conversations. Playfulness. Peace.
Think of it as your little tradition for two. A sweet way to end the year close, grounded, and grateful for the one you love.
You can start on December 1 or whenever you feel ready. Just jump in.
Your December Marriage Challenge Map
Every day this month invites you into a tiny moment of connection. Some festive, some intimate, some reflective as the year winds down. All designed to help you feel like a team again.
Your Daily Journey: 30 Days of Cozy December Connection
Week 1: Warm Beginnings
Day 1: December Love Note. Write a sweet note and tuck it somewhere festive.
Day 2: Morning Gratitude. Share one thing you’re grateful for about them today.
Day 3: Hot Drink Together. Tea, coffee, cocoa… sip and talk for ten minutes.
Day 4: Help With Holiday Tasks. Wrap a gift, prep a list, or handle something for them.
Day 5: Cozy Touch. Hold hands under a blanket or hug a little longer today.
Day 6: Decorate Together. Add one new ornament or create a tiny tradition.
Day 7: Winter Walk. Take a short walk outside, even if it’s chilly.
Week 2: Holiday Heart Moments
Day 8: “I Love When You…” Tell them three things they do that you adore.
Day 9: Laugh Break. Watch a funny holiday clip or joke around for a few minutes.
Day 10: Share a Childhood Memory. Something from your holiday past.
Day 11: Sweet Text. Send a flirty or affectionate message midday.
Day 12: Their Choice Night. Movie, music, game, or quiet time.
Day 13: Warm Cuddle. Fifteen minutes under a blanket, no distractions.
Day 14: Look at Lights. Drive or walk to see holiday lights together.
Week 3: Togetherness and Joy
Day 15: Bake or Cook Together. Even something simple counts.
Day 16: Learn Something Wintery. A recipe, tradition, or fun fact.
Day 17: Show Appreciation. Thank them for something meaningful today.
Day 18: Compliment Their Strength. Name a trait you admire.
Day 19: Holiday Playlist. Make a playlist that feels like “us.”
Day 20: Sit by the Tree or Lights. Just talk or sit quietly together.
Day 21: Dreaming Forward. Share a goal or dream for next year.
Week 4: Year-End Intention and Intimacy
Day 22: How Can I Support You? Ask what they need today.
Day 23: Bring Back a Tradition You Both Loved. Something small or nostalgic.
Day 24: Christmas Eve Stillness. A quiet moment together before the day begins.
Day 25: Christmas Love. Share what you love most about the life you’re building.
Day 26: Slow Morning Together. Stay in bed a little longer or enjoy a calm start.
Day 27: Connect With Friends. A winter double date or virtual check-in.
Day 28: Reflect on the Year. Talk about the best parts and the hardest parts.
Day 29: Choose a Few Challenges to Keep Weekly. Keep the magic alive.
Day 30: New Year Date Night. Celebrate the love you’re carrying into the new year.
A Soft Reminder as December Ends
This challenge isn’t about perfection or creating picture-perfect moments. It’s about choosing each other a little more intentionally during one of the busiest, most emotional months of the year. Whether you complete every day or only a handful, your effort still matters. Every small moment becomes part of your story.
Let me know which December challenge you’re trying first. I can’t wait to hear how it warms your marriage.
The December Marriage Challenge
Until next time, shine amongst the stars!
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Bring warmth and connection into your marriage this season with my December Marriage Challenge. Simple daily moments that deepen love, joy, and togetherness. Start anytime this month. #MarriageChallenge #DecemberLove
We all lead very busy lives. My husband and I both have businesses of our own so it’s very important for us to hang out every night after work and go on our dates once in a while to be away from our kids and routines. Overall, I am very blessed with a happy marriage. 🙂
I love hearing this! It sounds like you and your husband really prioritize each other, even with busy lives. Those nightly hangouts and date nights are such a wonderful way to stay connected. So glad you’re feeling blessed in your marriage—it really shows! 💛✨