When It Feels Like It’s Just You Two
Hey there, sweet friend. It’s Lavanda Michelle, and today’s topic is one I don’t take lightly—staying married when it feels like the whole world is against your relationship.
Whether it’s your family, your friends, or even strangers on the internet, the lack of support can wear you down. I’ve been there too—hurt by side comments, silent judgment, or outright criticism. But I’m here to tell you: if you and your spouse are committed, you can thrive—even in a quiet storm.
Let me share some real, from-the-heart ways to keep your marriage strong, even when others don’t believe in it.
1. Make Each Other Your Safe Place
When the outside world feels cold, your marriage needs to be warm. Build a space between the two of you that feels safe, honest, and kind.
- Speak love, not just truth.
- Let your home be your hideaway from judgment.
- Pray together, cry together, and laugh together.
2. Protect Your Peace
You don’t owe everyone access to your marriage. Some people are just nosy, bitter, or stuck in their own pain.
- Set boundaries with people who bring drama.
- Don’t share your business with folks who don’t support your growth.
- If necessary, limit time with negative family members or “well-meaning” friends.
3. Seek Wise Counsel—Not Just Opinions
Not everyone who gives advice is qualified to do so. Look for voices that love marriage, not just gossip.
- A faith-based counselor or mentor couple can be a blessing.
- Read books or listen to podcasts that build your relationship.
- Avoid people who are quick to say “just leave.”
4. Stay on the Same Team
When the world feels against you, the two of you need to pull together—not apart.
- Talk often. Not just about bills and chores, but about your dreams, worries, and goals.
- Be quick to forgive. You don’t need to be perfect—you need to be present.
- Celebrate small wins together. Even surviving a hard week counts!
5. Play the Long Game
Every marriage hits rough patches. But lasting love is built over time, not just in good seasons.
- Remember why you chose each other.
- Focus on growth, not perfection.
- Stay hopeful. The people who doubt your marriage today might one day admire it.
Closing: Your Love Story Isn’t for Them Anyway
Listen, friend—your marriage doesn’t need an audience. It needs commitment. It needs two people who choose each other, over and over, no matter who claps or criticizes.
You are not alone. You are not failing. You are fighting, and that’s something to be proud of.
Keep showing up. Keep choosing love.
With grace and faith,
💜 Lavanda Michelle
How to Stay Married When No One Supports Your Marriage
Until next time, shine amongst the stars!
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Feeling alone in your marriage? 💔 You’re not. I’m sharing faith-filled ways to stay strong when no one supports your relationship. You can thrive together—even in silence. 💜 #marriageadvice #lovefight 👉
Very insightful
Thanks for posting 💍💒
Thank you so much, Jovale 💖 It really can feel lonely when no one seems to get it… like you’re swimming upstream alone. But staying connected to each other, even in the small everyday ways, makes all the difference. Sending you so much encouragement—you’re not as alone as it feels. 💍✨