I was sitting in my favorite chair this morning, watching the sunrise, and I realized something… we spend so much time planning our 2026 budgets, our gym routines, and our career goals, but we rarely audit the thing that affects our daily happiness the most: our relationships.
We’re standing on the edge of a brand-new year. It’s that season of “fresh starts” and “clean slates.” But before the ball drops and the confetti falls… I want you to sit in the quiet and ask yourself this: Does your relationship help you grow, or is it holding you back?
It’s a heavy question, I know. It’s a “sip your coffee and stare out the window” kind of question. But it’s the most important one you’ll ask all December.
Love Should Be a Launchpad, Not a Anchor
We’ve all been in those seasons where love feels like a weight. Maybe it’s a partner who subtly discourages your big dreams because they’re afraid of being left behind. Or maybe it’s a connection that has become so comfortable that you’ve both stopped evolving.
A healthy relationship should feel like a safe place to land, but also a launchpad to fly. It’s about two people saying, “I love who you are right now, but I can’t wait to see who you’re going to become.”
The “Growth” Check-List
Take a second to really think about the last twelve months.
- Did your partner celebrate your wins as if they were their own?
- When you wanted to try something new—a hobby, a career shift, a health goal—did they say “How can I help?” or “Are you sure that’s a good idea?”
- Do you feel like a “bigger” version of yourself today than you were last January?
If you feel like you’ve had to shrink your personality, your goals, or your voice just to keep the peace, that’s a red flag that’s waving right at you. You weren’t meant to live a “small” life just to make someone else feel secure.
Stepping Into 2026 with Intent
Growth is messy. It involves hard conversations and setting boundaries. But as we head into 2026, I want you to prioritize the kind of love that demands you show up as your best self.
Relationships aren’t just about “getting through the day” together; they’re about building a future where both people feel empowered. If your connection is stagnant, maybe this is the week you have the conversation that changes everything. Or, maybe it’s the week you realize you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be—being cheered on by someone who loves your evolution as much as they love you.
You deserve to grow, love. Don’t let 2026 be another year where you stay in the same place.
The Year-End Relationship Audit: Is Your Connection Fueling You or Folding You?
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Until next time, shine amongst the stars!
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Before the new year starts… ask yourself this: Does your relationship help you grow or hold you back? 🥂 Love should be a launchpad, not an anchor. Let’s head into 2026 choosing growth. ✨ ❤️ #LavandaMIchelle
